My friend Bill
passed away this weekend. I’ve known him my whole life and there’s a lonely
spot now that wasn’t there before. But Bill was in his 90s, had recently broken
a hip, and was ready to go. He had, as a matter of fact, been ready to go since
May 18, 2008, when his wife Mae passed away. That was when the man who’d always
played cards wouldn’t play anymore because he didn’t have his partner. It was
when, even when he was flirting with you—and Bill always flirted—tears would well in his eyes and you’d know he
really only wanted to be with “Shorty DeHaven.” DeHaven was Mae’s maiden name
and he called her Shorty. She called him honey.
Mae was
pretty. Always. And she was girly in a way most of us never manage, or maybe we
do and it just doesn’t look that good on us. The last time I saw her was at
church on Sunday morning either a week or two weeks before she died—I can’t
remember which—and she had on makeup and jewelry. And her eyes sparkled. Bill’s
did, too, when he looked at her.
I write love
stories. I’ve been asked a lot of times why I do. People scoff at them
sometimes, laugh at the idea of Happily Ever After. They call stories like mine
escapist fiction, fantasy fiction, pulp, trash, and some other things I’ve probably
forgotten. But those people didn’t know Mae and Bill. Maybe they don’t know
people whose eyes still sparkle when they look at each other and who still call
each other honey after 67 years. If they did, they’d understand why without
asking.
Bill left a
lot of lonely spots in people when he left us. He also left a lot of us so much
richer for having known him. Whenever I think of him, it will be with laughter.
And I will know that he and Shorty DeHaven are having their Happily Ever After.
Too early in the morning for tears, but they're flowing. Lovely tribute to a couple who gave the world a wonderful gift. Thanks for sharing your memories, Liz.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Judith. It's too soon yet to grasp that he's gone. They were such lovely people.
DeleteWhat a lovely romance, Liz! I am so sorry you lost your friend.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Kristi. It was the loveliest of romances.
DeleteGood journey to Bill and Mae. May the people who knew them always carry a piece of the love they shared and pass it on. You're so lucky to have had them in your life.
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss.
Thanks, Sandy. Knowing them was a precious thing.
DeleteAw, Liz, I'm so sorry you lost such a delightful friend. My heart is with you, but I'm very glad for him that he's rejoined his true love and that he Shorty are getting their HEA.
ReplyDeleteThey are, Nan. I'm sure of it.
DeleteAh, Liz. Hugs. I'm sorry about Bill, but I'm very happy he is with his Shorty again.
ReplyDeleteThanks, D.
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